Can a pathological people pleaser stop wanting the love of strangers? Why Tho? The Podcast

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This week on Why Tho? The Podcast, advice columnist Lizzy Acker and social media producer Destiny Johnson talk about the problem with wanting everyone to love you all the time from a reader who named themselves after a line in a Taylor Swift song.

They also answer the age-old question: Do you have to love the same music as your spouse?

Listen to this conversation and more on the latest edition of The Oregonian/OregonLive’s advice podcast. Don’t forget to subscribe, tell all your friends to subscribe and leave a five-star review.

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